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At the dog park, do you have to call your dog’s name ten times before they come to you? Or maybe you have to say “sit” three times before they respond. It might feel like everyone else’s dog responds immediately, except yours.
Many frustrated dog parents give up and assume their dog is stubborn, only listens when they want to, or, my personal favorite, is “dumb.” The truth, however, is that something most likely went wrong in your training. Luckily, you can fix it, but it will take some work.
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The Problem is Command Nagging
This term is what trainers call it when someone repeats a cue more than once. It can be a big issue for training. Why? Because you are undermining your own training!
When you first teach your dog a cue, you say the word once. But then that big nasty thing called “impatience” appears. Your dog just learned a cue and may be taking a second or two to think about what the word you said means. Or maybe they’re in a new environment and there are distractions they haven’t dealt with before.
Whatever the reason, your dog takes a little bit too long (in your opinion) and you say the cue again. And then again. Before you know it, you have said the word five or six times, and your dog finally sits.
Then it becomes habit! Soon, you are “command nagging” almost immediately and for every cue.
So, what is command nagging doing from your dog’s perspective?
Your dog was just learning what that verbal cue meant, but you started repeating the word. Now, your dog learned that “sit, sit, sit” means sit. The repetitive string of words has become the cue. Your dog no longer responds to just “sit” because, in their mind, you taught them that “sit, sit, sit” was the cue. Thus, your dog is going to wait for that third, fourth, or even fifth sit.
This works for any cue: their name, come, down, stay, etc. Sometimes, if the dog doesn’t know the cue well enough, hearing the word over and over doesn’t help them figure out what it means. Remember, they don’t speak our language!
Instead, your “nagging” just becomes background noise to your dog, just like the other 99% of the time you’re talking. Your dog may not even realize you are talking to them.
Or, you have used a command when you shouldn’t have. For example, if you call your dog to you for something they don’t like, such as a bath or nail trim, it may do more harm than good. You have now taught your dog that “come” means “things I hate.” This is a surefire way to teach your dog to not respond to your cues. At that point, the cue is poisoned.
How To Fix It
To fix these training errors, you are going to have to go back several steps to before you added the cue and see if your dog will offer the behavior (or lure it if you were using lures).
At first, don’t say the cue. When your dog is doing the desired behavior again (whether it was sit, come, eye contact, etc), you can try re-adding your cue, which you will say one time.
If the cue is poisoned, you will find it quicker and easier to retrain your dog if you choose a different word. For example, instead of “sit” use “chill,” “settle,” or “seat.” For “come,” use “here” or “with me.” Then, be patient as your dog figures out what the new cue means!
Also, have patience in new places or when distractions are around because that might make your dog’s response time slower than you think it should be. If your dog doesn’t respond at all, then something about the environment is making your dog nervous or stressed – repeating the cue won’t make them listen! Instead, adjust the environment until your dog is in a position where they will respond, and work from there.
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